Sometimes I wish I had philosophy at school...

I believe most of the people have a sort of a leader....coz they need to belong with some people. Sometimes that sort of people make groups , and in those groups there's always a leader, a leader that tell them wot to do.

I think i don't belong to the sort of "leader" persons nor with the sort of "people who follow the leader" persons. Some people dont want to accept me coz i dont do wot they want me to. But there's ALWAYS more people alike you that understands how you feel and make you feel that youre not alone =).

Yeah well I agree with you both. But you'll end up followin someone sooner o later, I tell you. Mostly if you fall in love and yer loved in return and start a real relatioship..you'll most probably end up needin that person, followin them and well..yes, having a leader. If yer lucky you'll be yer lover's leader too.
Anyway..I think that ''groups'' thing is right..but there are also groups of friends where there's no ''boss'' to be seen. And..who has never wanted to be the leader sometime, uh?

Well...maybe. But I think everyone has a sort of leader...even if they dont believe that..everyone has a person who want to be like or do wot the other person do..smthin like that. I think that's more like..admiration but anyway is like a leader, coz you wanna follow the same steps as the other person.
I do believe too that if you really love a person you'll end needin' that person, and if that person loves ya too then that would be a mutual needin. I think that in the relationships theres not always a leader...in most of them yeah..but in some theres the same power to the two parts of the pairing. Sometimes one part would be more imposing than the other or otherwise..everything is on the character and beliefs of each part of the relationship.